Sunday, February 10, 2013

21 Weeks Update : Weight Change, Stronger Kicks, and a Bunch of TMI Stuff!


I didn’t realize how TMI this post would be until I finished typing it, haha. So if you don’t like to hear TMI things you probably shouldn’t read it. If you do, read on and enjoy the wonderful wonders of pregnancy, but consider yourself warned, haha. Although, at this point you should probably be used to me already! :P

21 Weeks… I have officially crossed the halfway point and from this point on I will be more weeks pregnant than there is weeks left of the pregnancy! Yay!

So what has been happening this week? Aside from finding out the long awaited gender ( yay!) and being sick with the stomach flu ( boo!) I’ve had some new interesting symptoms/changes.
Let’s start with my weight. Last week I was 136.5 according to last week’s update. I just weighed myself now and I am 137.2. So I guess I am kind of on the right track with gaining a pound a week as I should be according to all these pregnancy apps. And this is surprisingly good especially since I had the stomach flu this week and that screwed things up a bit. But my weight has been funky this week. I don’t know if it was really me, or just the different scales or the amount of clothing I was wearing, although I do try to keep that at the same amount to be fair but the weight still has been jumping.

Last Saturday I was 136.5. Then I weighed myself Monday and I think I weighed 136.8 or 137, I don’t remember. On Tuesday I had an appointment with my primary care provider, he just likes to see me every now and then, and I saw this as a good “check up” after being hospitalized and was having paranoia about another UTI. Which ended up being negative, but now these “urgencies” I have going to the bathroom I take them more seriously. Because if it is a sign of a UTI I want to find out about it right away and treat it so it doesn’t get to a kidney infection again. Anyway, when they weighed me there, although I did take off my boots and all extra layers, I weighed 140.8. I was like WOAH; I gained 3 pounds in a day?! Wednesday was my ultrasound and the day I got the stomach flu, and Thursday I had an appointment with my thyroid doctor (yes I had a lot of appointments this week.) On their scale I weighed 136.5. So I am telling you I have NO idea what has been going on with my weight.

My personal guess is this. I mean, my weight generally would jump  a couple pounds every now and then, that makes sense. And as disgusting as this may sound it would usually depend on my bowel movements. Sometimes I would weigh myself and think I am gaining weight and then go to the bathroom have a big bowel movement and bam I am suddenly down those pounds. I’ve actually mentioned this to my thyroid doctor a couple months back and  as I was telling her this I am thinking she probably thinks I am crazy and it is not possible, but she told me big bowels can definitely have a big impact on the weight change. So I am guessing me weighing 137 roughly and jumping to 140 could be me eating a lot and not going to the bathroom, I don’t know, haha. And then the stomach flu hit me so everything obviously came out of me via diarrhea and I didn’t eat for 2 full days basically, so that brought my weight down 5 pounds I guess.  I don’t know, my body is crazy.

I mentioned last week I believe about my crazy pasta mania, and that definitely has not stopped yet. I tried incorporating some meatballs into this so I am eating at least some meat, which I ended up enjoying actually. But this week, I have started eating like crazy; I think it was this week, not the week before. I have been hungry all the time and just eating and eating. I have been having about 6-7 full meals a day with snacks in between.  Just crazy eating. And like I mentioned last week, I have no shame! My doctor actually told me to eat as much as possible because I need to gain at least 25 pounds, and so far I am “under” my pre-pregnancy weight. But up until Wednesday I have been going crazy about food. Of course the minute I actually start eating and I am on SOME potential road to gaining some weight, the wonderful stomach flu hit me. Wednesday and Thursday I had literally nothing but bananas to eat. Thursday evening I probably had my first meal. Even on Friday and Saturday, I still wasn’t back to my normal eating self. I was eating food, but it was very small amounts and just very blah. I guess after not eating for two days my stomach was just taking its time to get back to normal. Today, on the other hand I can freely say I am back to my crazy eating self again. Well, my crazy eating PREGNANT self.

Although I was obsessed with food before pregnancy, the way I eat now was not as much as I did before. For example, I used to never be hungry the minute I wake up. It would usually take me a few hours to “wake up” before I can have a meal which would be this awkward in-between breakfast and lunch time. This didn’t really matter to me since I would need a big filling meal anyway. But regardless, now the MINUTE I wake up, I’m like “Omg, I am hungry-I need food!” The problem with that is, I take my thyroid medicine first thing in the morning. The reason for that is because it needs to be taken on an empty stomach. That is, an hour before food or 3  hours after a meal. And the way I eat during the day, I would never be able to find a 3 hour slot for me to take the thyroid pill and then wait an additional hour to eat again. Absolutely not! So if I wake up at night or early morning to pee or something and can remember to take the pill, I do so, go back to sleep, and then I can eat when I wake up. Anyway, so I battle with this every morning. Waking up starving, and taking the pill immediately to wait an hour to eat. Ha, seriously the longest hour of my life! :) So that’s the story with food.

Sweat. I started sweating! And originally I didn’t think anything of it because this started when I was in the hospital and I just thought it was fever related. I mean, technically it was…because the amounts I sweated at the hospital were insane and that is not how I am sweating now, but I just remember it starting then. I have always been a cold person. Not in a mean way, in a literal way, haha.  As in, I love the heat… I love 80 degree weather, burning sun. If it gets just a little chilly outside as it can feel for other people, for me it is freezing and I wear 2 pairs of socks, one of which are fuzzy and tons of layers. Let’s not even talk about me tolerating winter… because I don’t. At night, even though the heat is on comfortably, and my hubby can actually be hot at times, I wear 2 pairs of socks, one of them being fuzzy again, fuzzy warm pj pants, a t-shirt, and a long sleeve shirt on top of that and of course I am under the blankets. That for me would be normal. Now, I started sweating! Not just at night, but even during the day. I don’t wear my long sleeve shirt on top as often as I used to now. Now, sometimes if I am just sitting on my bed the rest of my body could feel like it is at a comfortable temperature I feel this little trickle between my boobs down my belly. Just a random sweat. And that is basically the only place it really bothers me. At night I have been waking up sweating in the same spot and behind my neck. I would wake up to take off my layers and still sweat. It’s so strange. I know I am gaining weight, not by the scale but physically, obviously. I know I have more blood in my body and hence a lot of people claim to be warmer, but this sweating thing is just too much. Hey, at least it’s not the stinky kind of sweat! ;-) But I’ve actually developed a small rash between my boobs because of it :( And I have been very anal about it too. I wash that area about a thousand times a day, I even wipe it with rubbing alcohol, and recently started putting an anti-itch cream on it because it just won’t stop itching. It’s horrible.

Another thing about my boob area is… I got some stretch marks. Small ones, but they are there. Weird, because I never really thought about stretch marks, let alone having them on my boobs! I thought like normal people if I get them they would be on my belly (that might be yet to come, of course.) I guess this is proof that they have obviously grown some, which I already knew since I wasn’t that large to begin with. I actually bought 2 new bras in the beginning of the pregnancy to accommodate my new size and I read bras with the wire were not good for you. I thought I bought bras that still gave me room to “grow” a little, but obviously I was wrong and will probably have to get new ones soon, especially since I am expected to grow even more in the third trimester and when baby comes.

But the stretch marks, I actually bought Palmer’s tummy butter cocoa butter formula cream. I’ve been applying it, but obviously no changes yet. I’ve asked some mamas about it, some say it is used to prevent, some say it is used to make the marks go away, some say there is nothing you can do about it! Great. Well, we shall see, but I don’t like this thing at all. And not to mention they are still super veiny. It’s crazy, it’s like someone drew with permanent marker on me or something. My boobs are just getting the best of it this week.

Baby this week has been moving like crazy. Yes, I said the same exact thing last week, but this week even more. Especially since Wednesday, he has been jumping and kicking and I don’t know what else he is doing in there but he is having a blast that is for sure. And the movement has been more frequent, and since Wednesday I have to say it feels like it is constant! Which is great, I love it! On the day of the ultrasound, I was lying in bed feeling deadly, but beside it all baby was just moving around like crazy and made me smile anyway. It felt like he was kicking my hip bones, it was literally so close to it, but knew probably that was just what it felt like. Once we got to the ultrasound place, the technician actually said that he was positioned head down and his feet were right next to my hip bone. So in order for her to get certain pics of him she had to position the camera-thingy right next to my bone! Which explained why I felt the kicks the way I did before hand! He’s a silly baby! The lady also told me he was measuring at 13 ounces and 4 days ahead of my due date of June 24th. Which made me happy. I know usually if the difference isn’t a 2 week difference than it doesn’t really matter that baby could just be bigger in size and growing at a different rate. But they have changed my due date from June 30, to the 28, to June 24 and now saying baby is measuring 4 days ahead. Hey, I don’t mind, if baby comes earlier I am ALL for it! The sooner- the better and the more summer time fun we will get to spend together! So I am not going to assume I am 21 weeks and 4 days or something today, I am still going to continue with my current countdown. That way, if I do have baby earlier it will be a nice surprise :)

So more about baby moving more this week. Aside from feeling it more frequently and almost constantly, they have gotten to be stronger. I have felt them with my hands several times already which is awesome! Zhenya hasn’t really had the patience to sit and wait for the kick. He’s tried a couple times and baby would stop moving the moment he would put his hand, silly boy. But Zhenya finally caught baby in action! Baby was moving like crazy and I grabbed his hand and placed it on my belly, and Papa felt baby give him a high five. It made both of us very happy! Not to mention, I can also SEE the movements on my belly now too. Maybe once they become more visible I will record a video and post it on here or something. That would be fun! :) But, yeah… baby is very active, and I just adore it! Best feeling in the world!

Other than that, that has been me this week. I am growing more, and I guess you can tell I am pregnant now by just looking at me if I am not wearing poofy clothing to cover it up. My friend Arseniy today told me “Woah, you got a Puza (belly in Russian)!”  And my neighbor today peaked her head out of her balcony as I was walking outside to our laundry room and commented on the fact she noticed  I had a small belly was wondering  if I was pregnant, haha. See, I’m the weird person that gets flattered when people ask me and just get excited because that means I am showing and growing! Other people on the other hand probably would have taken offense to that, especially since the belly isn’t obviously huge and could be just extra weight, haha. But that made me happy that people now look at me and think “She’s pregnant!” Yay for being fat!

But this basically sums up 21 weeks, I will stop blabbing now. I will probably post a 21 week belly shot tomorrow and continue to working on baby’s blanket, and if there is enough done this week to show off and brag about I will post another blanket update post. But if not, thank you all for reading and I will be back with next week’s update! :)

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